Dear Elle,
You are now 12 weeks old. I cannot believe how fast the time is going. People always say when you have a second baby you take less pictures, videos, etc. For whatever reason I think the assumption is that becoming a parent the second time around isn't as exciting and you don't feel the need to document every little thing the way you do with your first child.
Well little girl, I am here to tell you that they are wrong. Yes, there may be less pictures/videos, etc. And life may be a little busier this time around. But the real reason why there is less is because we have learned to enjoy the moments even more. We know how fast they will go now. So instead of trying to capture the moment we are living it, enjoying it, and savoring it. Sleepless nights are no longer something to lament over and cries on the monitor at 3 am don't cause grumbling. Rather they are just opportunities to spend relishing in your littleness. So as you are nearing three months, I just want to say slow down! I'm not ready! I want you to be little as long as you can.
You have gotten so big in these 12 weeks! Your little legs have chunky rolls and your length, my oh my! You've got the cutest round little belly too. It feels like you are making the transition from newborn to baby now. Your cry sounds a little more mature and not as frantic and ear piercing, except when you are really upset which is rare. You have begun to grasp things with your hands and kick at they toys in your play gym with your feet. Your latest discovery has been sucking on your fingers. You work so hard every night to break your swaddle and get your fingers into your mouth. You have a smile that stretches ear to ear. We are starting to hear your voice more and more. You still do not like to spend very much time in your car seat, but since we have started taking your brother to and from school every day you have gotten better. I have tried and tried to get you to fall asleep in the car, but it isn't for you. You have begun going to bed each night sometime between 6:30-8:00. We have started reading books before bed each night and your brother is starting to read to you too. He is so proud to show you all that he is learning in kindergarten. I put you in bed wide awake and I am still amazed at how easily you put yourself to sleep! You are still napping in your favorite swing, but pretty soon you will be graduating to your crib for every nap. See what I mean? It's going by so fast!
I love spending my days with you and am so thankful to have some extra time before going back to work at the end of November. These are the days I will cherish forever.
I love you baby girl. I know that you are a blessing and gift.
Love,
Mommy
